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September 25, 2018 By Lisa E Betz

My Simple Strategy for Staying Sane: Plan Ahead

My life would be utter chaos if I didn’t plan ahead. I have nothing against spontaneity, but when every piece of my life is left to the whims of last-minute chance I don’t operate at anything near my optimum level.

I am not an ultra-scheduled person. I have never been one to stick with rigid daily or weekly routines. But neither do I cope with the other side of the spectrum, where life is lived totally spur-of-the-moment. I prefer the middle ground: a basic plan with flexibility to adapt.

I find that planning ahead enables me to be more flexible while remaining intentional about how I use my time.

5 reasons planning ahead is good for me

  1. Planning ahead allows me to pace myself. I am not as young as I used to be. I used to get ready for a big party in one long day. I don’t have the energy to do it all in one day anymore. In order to handle big events I need to plan ahead, spread out the load, and do some tasks each day.
  2. Planning ahead gets me off my butt and out of my rut. I often sing the praises of trying new things and stepping outside my comfort zone. Unfortunately, I am not naturally good at it. Doing something new means usually requires effort: finding opportunities, figuring out hours and locations, actually going… Novel experiences only happen when I plan them ahead of time.
  3. Planning ahead helps me remember all my stuff. I am an expert in walking out the door and leaving my water bottle—the one I just filled—sitting on the counter. When it comes to leaving the house, my brain seems to think as long as I have something in my hand all is good. Which means other somethings are often left behind, especially when I am in a hurry. The solution? Plan ahead. I put all important items in a bag, basket, or cardboard box (right next to my purse if possible). Then when I pick up the one item my brain is looking for, I have all the stuff I need.
  4. Planning ahead keeps me focused on priorities. Without a plan, I would spend my days doing stuff that seemed interesting or useful at the moment. I might be part way through something and then notice something else to do instead. This is not the way to accomplish what is most important on a given day. By planning ahead I take time to think through my priorities and determine the most important tasks. I typically sit down on Sunday and jot down the key things I hope/need to accomplish in the coming week. In addition I have a series of reminders on my phone to prompt me about important tasks.
  5. Planning ahead reduces my stress level. Everyday life is filled with little decisions. (What to wear? What to cook for dinner? Should I stop at the store now or later?) The more I am in a hurry, the more stressful those decisions become. When I take the time to make some of those decisions ahead of time, my day has less stress. If I know I have an important morning appointment, I choose clothes the night before. If I think about what to make for dinner in the morning I find dinner prep time less stressful.

Bottom line: I can make life easier for myself by planning ahead in strategic areas. And at my age, easier is a good thing.

How about you? Where might planning ahead make your life easier?

Filed Under: A Better Mindset, Simplify Life Tagged With: chaos, coping with busyness, decisions, plan ahead, planning, sanity

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