Some days I wonder if I matter. Our world is so big and so broken that I can’t see how my paltry efforts make a difference.
Do you feel that way too? Then let me tell you some good news.
We don’t have to make a huge impact to matter. Our words and actions can make a difference, whether we see it or not.
You and I can impact our world. Today. Tomorrow. Every day.
Even if we only have five minutes to spare.
25 quick and easy ideas that can make a positive difference in someone’s life.
Which ones can you fit into your schedule today?
- Give a coworker a sincere compliment.
- Tell a parent what you appreciate about their child.
- Send a few words of encouragement to someone who influences others, such as a pastor, teacher, or coach.
- If you’ve received great service, thank the person AND let the person’s manager know.
- Tell someone they matter to you. Call, text, write a note, knock on their door.
- Say thank you. To family members, coworkers, and the stranger who holds the door. Your gratitude affirms that their actions matter.
- Recommend a local business to your friends.
- Leave a positive comment on someone’s blog, website or social media.
- Post a positive review on Amazon, Trip Advisor, Yelp, or other review sites. Two or three sentences are all that’s needed.
- Give people your undivided attention. Set aside your phone, put your agenda on hold, and listen with both eyes and both ears.
- Take a photo of something uplifting/beautiful/heartwarming and post it on social media.
- Pick up stray trash you see along your path. (In the street, the lunchroom, the living room, etc.)
- Do something eco-friendly. (Recycle that can, utilize a reusable grocery bag, etc)
- Stop in a local shop you’ve never visited before, just to see what’s there.
- Purchase something from a small local business.
- Use your dollars to support ethical companies by making a purchase from a fair trade organization or from a certified B Corp.
- Spend five minutes going through a cabinet or closet. Collect items you can donate to a battered women’s shelter, homeless shelter, thrift shop, or other ministry.
- Select a favorite book, recipe, plant, movie, etc. and give it away to someone you know will enjoy it.
- Sign up for Amazon smile. Designate any 501(c)(3) non-profit and every time you remember to click through from Smile, your non-profit receives a donation. (A teensy amount, but every little bit helps.)
- Be generous. With smiles, compliments, expertise, loose change …
- Choose not to gossip. Or to encourage it.
- Be extra kind to anyone who seems to be having a bad day. (Instead of growling at them for being a jerk.)
- Accept help gracefully and gratefully. Don’t insult others by rejecting their kindness to you.
- Before dealing with a difficult person, take five minutes to regain calm and prepare mentally and emotionally.
- Be a positive voice in social media. Inspire, encourage, and motivate rather than complain, rant, or snark.
And if you have more than five minutes…
- Take a bag of groceries to a local food bank.
- Donate blood.
- Show up. Attend community meetings, library events, concerts, classes. The smaller the crowd, the more your presence matters.
- Come alongside someone. Be an exercise buddy, a mentor, a second pair of hands….
- Share your story with someone. Your account of challenges overcome or dreams attained can inspire someone else to carry on.
You matter. You can make a difference. Try at least one of these suggestions today. And if you have other ideas, let me know.